Chronic illness has a way of shrinking your world.
Not all at once. Gradually. A cancelled trip here, a hobby abandoned there, a meal you used to love that no longer works for your body, a version of yourself you barely recognize anymore.
This section is a quiet rebellion against that shrinking.
An exceptional lifestyle isn’t about doing everything or having everything. It’s about deliberately choosing the things that make your life feel rich, beautiful, and worth showing up for — and then finding ways to do them that work within your actual reality.
For us that means traveling accessibly and intentionally. Cooking food that nourishes and delights. Creating art that processes what words can’t reach. Noticing the small beautiful moments that chronic illness can make you miss if you’re not paying attention. Growing food, tending chickens, fermenting vegetables, and building a kind of quiet self-sufficiency in a city backyard.
None of it looks the way it might have before diagnosis. But all of it is real, intentional, and deeply worth cultivating.
This is where we talk about living — not just managing.
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About Cultivate an Exceptional Life
Cultivate an Exceptional Life is a chronic illness community for women who are done waiting for their hard season to be over before they start really living.
Here you'll find honest stories, practical tools, and hard-won wisdom for building a life you love — alongside your illness, not in spite of waiting for it to get better.
Because an exceptional life doesn't just happen. It has to be cultivated.
Meet Leisa Watkins
Leisa is a chronic illness writer and advocate living with MS, fibromyalgia, Lyme disease, and CFS/ME, and a mom navigating her kids' chronic illness journeys alongside her own.
She writes from lived experience and years of research, sharing practical strategies and compassionate guidance for women building a full life alongside chronic illness.
Not a medical professional. Please consult your healthcare provider for medical advice.